CHRONIC PAIN ASSOCIATION : FROM ‘PATIENT’ TO ‘PERSON’
Tuesday, April 21st, 2009The ACPA describes ten concepts which it claims can help you move from being a patient to becoming a person again. These are:
1. Acceptance of the pain. The ACPA states that at some stage many patients with chronic pain will have to accept that they ‘learn to live with it’. After initially looking to the medical community to take away the pain you will realise that you are living with the chronic pain. Learning to live with pain does not mean that you will abandon medical treatment.
2. Getting involved. Once you accept that you have chronic pain you must become actively involved in your own recovery. Attending ACPA meetings or following the excellent manuals provided by ACPA can assist you in this.
3. Priorities. What is the most important thing to you today? Ask yourself this question each day and list those things you feel important in your life. This list should not only contain your problems, but also those things that make you happy and those things that you always wanted to do if only you had the time.
Realise that certain issues cannot be avoided and must be addressed. When you set priorities you accept that nothing is absolutely black or white, including your life. You must try to be flexible and
learn to focus on your life instead of your pain. Setting your priorities is the first step in moving back into the mainstream of life.
4. Realistic goals. Once you recognise your capabilities and limitations and set your priorities you can begin to set specific goals for yourself. How many of your activities have you allowed to fall away because of your pain? How many social activities have you shut yourself from? Setting goals will give you a reason for getting out of bed each morning.
Your goals need not be centred on work but on activities that you enjoy. Simply setting aside time for relaxation can be one of your goals. Accomplishing even one of your goals can be a powerful force in helping you to generate a positive attitude and helping you to learn with chronic pain. After several successes you may find that anything is possible.
5. Your basic rights. No matter who you are, what you look like, or what you do, you have certain basic rights. These rights establish the fundamental principles of your actions and reactions. It is important that you study these basic rights, understand them and use them in your daily life. These rights will give you freedom to explore the vast opportunities that you may not have believed possible before. They will allow you to be you without feeling guilty. Briefly your rights as listed by ACPA are:
• The right to act in a way that promotes your dignity and self-respect.
• The right to be treated with respect.
• The right to make mistakes.
• The right to do less than you are humanly capable of doing.
• The right to change your mind.
• The right to ask for what you want.
• The right to take time to slow down and think before you respond.
• The right to feel you don’t have to explain everything you do and think.
• The right to say no and not feel guilty, and
• The right to ask for information.
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